Mike is finally done with homework, and hopefully we'll be in bed soon. Since he's been in school we've both been staying up really late and functioning on little sleep. I've been thinking about all of the "sacrifices" we've been making, and how most of them are really blessings. Here are a few of the "sacrifices" I've been thinking about.
The sacrifice- Mike being in school. Mike is in his 4th of 5 semesters for his Professional MBA from the U. (Go Utes!) Right now he has class on Mon, Tues and Wed from 6-10 and spends almost every other night studying until 11. The U just raised their tuition by 39%, so it is going to cost us 8k more than we thought and we're paying for it all. His time is limited with the kids and me.
The blessing- Mike being in school. This is a great opportunity for him. He will not only increase his knowledge, but will most likely increase his earning potential. Our kids are going to be able to have an example of hard work and determination. Although our time is limited, we've gotten really good at making that time count. He always takes a break from homework to read to the kids before bed. We always make us time, and it makes it more precious.
The sacrifice- Parenthood- Sleepless nights. Expenses. Temper tantrums. Time issues. Loss of personal space....etc.
The Blessings- None greater! Being a parent can be tough, but I can't think of anything, other than marriage, more rewarding. I love being a mother. I liked working, going to school and being more social, but nothing is better than being a mother. Their bedtime routine takes a long time, but someday they won't want me to read extra books, sing extra songs, and cuddle. Someday they will have their own kids, so I need to enjoy their childhood as much as possible.
The sacrifice- Tithing- 10% of our gross earnings can seem like a lot. Although we only joke about it, I would have a sweet Honda Odyssey if we didn't pay it. We'd have more money for trips, dates, clothes, etc.
The Blessings- Thankfully, Mike and I are on the same page on paying it, and have both felt the blessings. I'm grateful that I get to give back such a small amount when I have been given so much. I've learned that when we're asked to do something gospel related the blessings always outweigh the "sacrifices."
The Sacrifice- Church callings- I just received a new assignment at church that I am really excited about. On the "sacrifice" side I will be putting more time to serving in my church than I have since my mission. Mike is an instructor and has to give a lesson every few weeks. That takes study and preparation on top of his already busy schedule.
The Blessings- I get the opportunity to work with some amazing youth and some ladies in my ward that I think are great. I get to help teach the girls, and in return I'll learn as much as they do. I'll get to show my daughter positive young role models she can look up to. Mike gets to learn from his lessons and have interaction with people in our ward he might not get to socialize with otherwise.
The Sacrifice- (from Mike) P90X- Mike is adding on an hour or more of grueling workouts to his already busy schedule.
The "Blessings"- Extra strength and energy, at the end of the 90 days, so he can better chase our energetic kids.
One of the main things I've learned about sacrifices, is that they aren't. Just about every sacrifice I've ever had has led to blessings far greater than I would have had without it. When we're called on to "sacrifice" ourselves for something greater than us we grow so much more. I really like sacrifices, because I can use, and need, all the blessings I can get.