Sarah decided about six months ago that she's never going to get married and have kids. Her reasons are: 1. She never wants to move away from her parents 2. She doesn't want to get pregnant and throw up. I only got sick once, but that was enough for her. :-)
Despite her decision to never get married and have kids she has now, on three different occasions, told us how she will do things differently when she's a mom.
"When I'm a mom I will let my kids watch TV all day long as much as they want!" This statement was accompanied by a lot of tears. I let my kids watch ~3 shows/day that I feel are educational or have some value. Sarah felt she hadn't watched enough and bawled. She cried and cried and told me that when she's a mom she'll let her kids watch TV all day long if they want, and I need to be the kind of mom she's going to be.
"When I'm a mom if I have a little girl that has a cat that pees all over the house I will let it pee all over the house." If you haven't heard, we got a new kitten. There are some upsides- My kids love her. And some downsides- She is mean to our older cat, she's crazy, she doesn't seem to like me, and SHE'S PEEING ALL OVER! If you haven't had this problem, it's awful. Cat urine really stinks. She's peed in my closet, Steven's closet, Steven's bed TWICE and on all our TV blankets in the living room. I told Sarah we're going to get rid of her if she keeps this up, just to prepare her. I don't think I would, but I was feeling her out. She didn't cry when I said this, but told Mike later that if it were her, she'd let the cat pee all over the house.
"When I'm a mom I will let my daughter sleep with me every night instead of my husband to show her I love her" On Wednesday Sarah asked me why I like to sleep with Mike instead of her. I told her that I love her, but I like to sleep with my husband, and it's what married people do. She said that I should want to sleep with her more, and told me that when she has a daughter, she'll sleep with her all the time. I told her we could have a sleepover that night and let us sleep with us. We didn't sleep well, but it made her happy. :-)
For someone that "never wants to get married and have kid," she sure knows the kind of mom she's going to be. I just hope I get the opportunity to bring these up someday. :-) I love my little mommy.